Strife and My Levi Jackets
Wanting to teach the preteens in my class about the choices they make regarding their attitudes and strife in their lives, finding a suitable visual aid was proving to be difficult. Sitting on my bed after rummaging through cupboards, my eyes fell on my two Levi jackets…one that is over-sized and quite comfortable and the other is a fitted jacket that fits, well a bit more snuggly. Like a flash of lightning, an idea popped into my head. A wild idea, but amazing idea.
Armed with two different colors of duct tape, red for the over-sized jacket and white for the fitted jacket and a marker I began to label the jackets. The over-sized jacket is my “strife” jacket that was labeled with different “negative attitudes”. You know the ones, a deep s-i-i-g-h when you ask them to do something, slamming of the doors, back talk, ignoring requests, being disrespectful, arguing, selfishness and my all time favorite…the rolling of the eyeballs! I labeled my sleeves, the back of my jacket, on the pockets, where ever I found a place for the red duct tape. On the other jacket, with the white tape, I labeled all the positive attitudes that were the opposite of strife, “I’ll do it now,” thank you, I would like you to have the biggest part, “I can do that for you,” etc.
Working at a church that takes great strides in making sure their facilities are pristine, I was often questioned when I had an object lesson that was messy. Not that I didn’t take extra time to make sure the room we used was as good or in better condition than when we started, because sometimes I even had to get out the carpet extractor and clean the carpet. I have the mind set that if it needs to be a messy object lesson to make a point with kids, the extra time to clean it was well worth the investment.

