The Most Important Question

Barbara Graves —  April 7, 2011

Years ago, I was given the opportunity to serve in a leadership role beyond just my own church.  The woman I served under, cautioned me to be prepared for the neglect of “people”.  The more people you serve, she warned, the more opportunities to be taken for granted.  But she didn’t tell me this out of bitterness.  I can remember clearly her gentle tone. What she did was teach me the most important question to ask yourself when you are in ministry.  The question is this: “Who are you working for?”

And since that time, I have found, time and again, that truly, that question does put everything into perspective.

If I spend hours praying and preparing for children’s church and pour every last bit of energy I have into the service itself, and not one parent says thanks, I can ask myself that question.

If there is a staff issue, a conflict over facilities or resources, and the children’s ministry takes a backseat while the other department goes with their schedule as planned, I can ask myself that question.

If I go weeks on end without a “thank you” from a parent, if I work hours on end without notice from my pastor, if the new program I have dreamed of starting is put on the back burner by the board, or if my spouse just doesn’t understand my passion for a volunteer ministry, I can ask myself that question.

Who am I working for?  I’m working for the One who birthed this passion in my heart from before I was born.  I’m working for the One who knows not only the number of hairs on my head, but also the number of hours I have labored for Him.  I’m working for the One who knows my heart, my dreams, my vision.  He knows my hurts, my frustrations, and my weakness.  And not one minute spent serving Him goes unnoticed.  If I’m working for the recognition of man, I will become angry or hurt.  But if my heart is set on serving the One who called me, what people think doesn’t really matter. I may not receive thank you’s from the parents whose children have been taught with excellence under my leadership.  I may not be completely appreciated by the staff and board of my church.  But the One who I’m working for has noticed. His approval is all I need.

So, who are you working for?

Barbara Graves

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Barbara is a married mother of 4 grown kids. She is the volunteer Children’s Pastor at Momentum Church in Woodstock, GA where she oversees kids from birth to 5th grade. She can often be found driving around north Georgia, usually with a cup of coffee in her hand.

6 responses to The Most Important Question

  1. Perfect message. thanks so much for this important reminder of who we really work for!

  2. Barbara Graves April 7, 2011 at 8:44 pm

    Thank you, Rebecca, for your kind words! It’s a question that I have asked over and over and it never fails to put everything into the correct perspective, His perspective!

  3. Love it! I recently had an opportunity to ask myself that question and my answer is the same as yours! It is easy to get caught up in the kiddos of this world but if we keep our focus on HIm, everything else will fall in place.

  4. Great reminder! It is so easy to get caught up in ourselves and do the “Woe Is Me”

    I was asked early on, “Why are you doing Children’s Ministry.” My response had something to do with my love of the children.

    My questioner looked at me shaking her head, “Then your focus will be all wrong. Your reason, your passion should be due to your love for the Lord.”

    • That’s a great question, too! I’m thankful someone taught me to ask myself this, way back in my early days of ministry!